【张艺兴】小蕾老师英语课堂 LESSON 121/Cold Dew 寒露（二）

Cold Dew(2)

寒露（二）

Loving and not loving, those who are loved and those whom I love,

爱与不爱，被爱和我爱的

when making decisions on these, I feel that it should be this way, 

把这些东西做决定的话，我觉得应该是这样的

you give your own ideas and will, she gives her own ideas and strengths,

你给出你的想法和你的意志，她给出她的想法和意志

in this type of dating process, both sides are to find the midpoint,

在这样的恋爱过程中，双方来找中间点

once this midpoint has been found,

如果找到了这个中间点

and it feels right, both sides can continue dating.

觉得是对的，双方可以继续交往下去

But if it is only one person who is blindly making the effort,

但是如果只是其中一个人一味地付出

then this sort of love will not be able to be established.

这样的爱情是不成立的

In reality, girls should be given more care and understanding.

在现实生活中，女生应该被更多地关爱体谅

When I went on  some time ago. Huang Xiao Ming-ge said,

前段时间上快本，黄晓明哥说

“I feel that whatever girls say is right”, I feel the same too.

“我觉得女孩说什么都是对的”，我也是这样觉得的

A girl is really great,

女生特别伟大

she will have to give birth to children in the future, and be a mother. 

她以后要生孩子、要当妈妈

She’s great but it's hard on her. However, guys do not need to do anything.

伟大而辛苦，但男生什么都不用做

When girls feel insecure, it is a requirement for guys to give her a sense of security.

在女生觉得没有安全感的时候，男生给她安全感是必须的

> requirement [rɪˈkwaɪəmənt] 

n.要求;必要条件;必需品，需要量;资格

Eg. Its products meet/fulfil/satisfy all legal requirements.

它的产品符合所有的法律要求。

Eg. Patience is the minimum requirement in teaching. 

耐心是教学必备的条件。

Eg. I know that concentration is the first requirement for learning. 

我知道专心致志是学习的首要条件。

Liking someone can change, but love will never change.

喜欢是可以变的，但是爱是不会变的

When you tell a girl, “I love you", once you say this sentence to her,

当你要对一个女生说“我爱你”的时候，你说出这句话的时候

it signifies that you have a responsibility towards her.

就意味着你对她是有责任的

> signify [ˈsɪgnɪfaɪ]

过去式: signified过去分词: signified现在分词: signifying

vt.意味;预示;表示…的意思

Eg. He signified his consent with a nod.

他点头表示同意。

vi.具有重要性,要紧

Eg. It signifies much to me.

这对我很重要。

Eg. What you said signifies little.

你说过的话无关紧要。

Eg. It doesn't signify to go or to stay, so you needn't worry about it.

或走或留都无所谓，你不必担心。

When love is present, it will be accompanied by sadness.

有爱情存在就会有伤心伴随

> present [ˈpreznt]

adj.目前的;现存的;现在的;出席的;[语法学]现在时的

Eg. You must be present at tomorrow’s meeting.

你一定要出席明天的会议。

n.现在;礼物

Eg. You've got to forget the past and start living in the present.

你必须忘掉过去，开始现在的生活。

Eg. We get lots of presents over Christmas.

我们圣诞节收到很多礼物。

present [prɪ’zent]

v.提出;出现;赠送;介绍;呈现

过去式: presented过去分词: presented现在分词: presenting

Eg. You must present yourself at tomorrow’s meeting.

你一定要出席明天的会议。

Eg. I presented him with a new dictionary.

Eg. I presented a new dictionary to him.

我给他送了本新词典。

Eg. The garden presents a beautiful sight in spring.

春天的花园呈现一派美丽的景致。

Being in a relationship is not simply about believing blindly, 

恋爱不是单纯地一味地相信

because if you blindly believe,

因为你一味相信的话

you will let yourself fall into a situation of getting hurt.

就会让自己陷入受伤的境地

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