You deserve the love you deprived of.爱自己

I hope you find it in you to forgive yourself for not having known how to cope with the world better. For having to rely on self-destructive ways to either suppress or release your pain.

You have learned from those trying times and the only way to stop sabotaging your own life is to let go of all the parts you think deserved the misery you used to put yourself in.

Don't punish yourself forever for the way you protected yourself the only way you knew
how.

You were the person you had to be, and after all, that person was the one that got you through till this day. I hope you let that person grow into someone you'd actually learn to love and like. You deserve the love you deprived yourself of.

我希望你从心底原谅自己，如果你曾经面对困难穷于应付，手足无措。如果你曾用推残自己的方式来抑制或发泄痛苦。

从那些艰难的日子中你学会了，如果你不想再毁掉自己的人生，你就要放弃那些负面的念头，是它们让你误以为，你需要受这些苦。

如果你只是想保护自己，却只知道这种方法，但请不要总是为此惩罚自己。

没有必要把自己变成别的样子，你就是自己的成长目标；那个为你一路披荆斩棘直到今天的人，难道不是你自己吗？希望你心中的自我能够成长，愿你能学会真心爱她，欣赏她。你曾剥夺了自己接收爱的权利，你值得那些爱。