我不说，你不懂，这就是我们之间的距离用英语怎么说/....知道的说一下嘛

I do not say, you do not know, this is the distance between us is how to say in English

Without my explanation, you'll never understand, and that is the distance between us,

You won't understand if I don't say it out,which shows the distance between us.

You won't know about it till I tell you in person. So this is the gap between us.