我不说，你不懂，这就是我们之间的距离用英语怎么说/....知道的说一下嘛

You won't know about it till I tell you in person. So this is the gap between us.

Without my explanation, you'll never understand, and that is the distance between us,

You won't understand if I don't say it out,which shows the distance between us.

I do not say, you do not know, this is the distance between us is how to say in English