英文演讲：Make Love, Not War

Make love not war 

做你爱做的事，而不是开战。 

Stop giggling, it's not what you think, although that would certainly make any year a lot better, but the message here is this, stop fighting unnecessary battles, don't always look for what's wrong with your career in your life, because you'll just get more of it. Zero in on what you want, keep things positive and operate from a position of warmth and passion. 

不要笑，不是你想的那样，虽然那样肯定会让任何一年都好很多，但我想表达的是：停止不必要的争斗，不要总是关注生活中和事业中的诸多问题，因为这样只会给你惹来更多麻烦。专注于你想要的，保持积极的态度，从一个温暖和富有激情的状态开始经营生活。

As a follow-up to the previous tip, when you do encounter a negative outcome, look for the hidden opportunity, failure is a normal part of life. What separates the winners is their ability to overcome obstacles and learn from adversity. As the saying goes, when life hands you lemons, make lemonade. 

续前一个小建议，当你遇到一个消极的结果时，寻找潜在的机会，失败是生活中非常常见的一部分。胜利者跟失败者的区别在于，他们克服障碍和从逆境中学习的能力。俗话说，当生活给你柠檬时，用它来做柠檬水。