Nowadays most parents find themselves hard to get along with their children. Here I'd like to give some advice. First, give children more free space. Today's children are more independent than before, so they think they need more respect. Second, play with them more. And remember to paly some games which can interest children. Third, treat them as your friends. Let them feel you are their good friends. Only in this way can they tell you something actually. Last but not least, don't spoil them too much. All the above three suggestions may be helpful, but some punishment is also necessary. Of course it needs to be told to them before. I hope these advice can be of some help.