we tend to have this feeling (myself included)• i want to leave no regret • I do not leave regrets The problems is we are viewing regrets have a negative impact in our lives There are a lot of psychologist and socialist study regrets• Regret make us human • regret make us better—————————Author : did a website “ world regret survey” • got responses from 105 countries • More than 16k regrets The results: all regrets fall into 4 categories • foundation regrets • Boldnes regrets • Moral regret • Connection regret —————————Why regret make us human ?Regret is hard to define Regret defin• the unpleasant feeling associated with some action or inaction a person has taken which has led to a state of affairs that he or she wishes were different.”• Regret is created by a comparison between the actual outcome and that outcome would have occurred had the decision maker made a different choice” • Regret is better understood les as a thing and more as a process