Keep quiet 保持安静

Yes, life can be a bit complicated and demanding. It can throw you off balance and give you no reason to be logical.

没错，生活很复杂，很让人费心。它能让你失去平衡，让你失去理智，没有逻辑。

However, since you have no control over many situations, you do have control over your own life. Look at yourself more than you look and meditate on others. Saying too much is providing an arsenal for you to get hurt with your words.

然而，虽然你无法控制很多情况，但是你能把握好自己的生活。多反省自己，不要总盯着别人。说得太多，就会让你被自己所说的话伤害。

Being mysterious, on the other hand, makes people go the extra mile to be your friend. You don't want to give them any ammunition to attack. Be still in your conversations and thoughts, and keep the people around you guessing, keep them wondering and looking over their shoulder for you.

但是，如果你保持沉默，就可以让别人主动接近你，与你交朋友。你肯定不想让他们拥有伤害你的武器，所以，无论是跟别人说话时，还是独自思考时，都要稳定自己的心绪，让你周围的人对你感到好奇，让他们持续警惕着你。

They will yell at you. you do nothing. You say nothing. They will come calling on you when you do not want. Stay calm. Say nothing. You aren't doing them a favor. You're doing yourself a favor.

他们会朝你叫喊，你无动于衷，你保持沉默。就算你不想，他们也会来招惹你。你要保持冷静，保持沉默。你这样做，不是为了他们，而是为了你自己。

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