Work on loving yourself 学会爱自己

I suggest that you work on loving yourself non-stop. Demonstrate to yourself the growing love that you have for yourself. Treat yourself to romance and love. Show yourself how special you are. Pamper yourself. Buy yourself flowers. Surround yourself with colors, textures, and scents that please you. 

我建议你要保持对自己的爱。向自己展示你对自己那越来越浓的爱，为自己带来浪漫，让自己的生活充满爱。让自己知道你有多独特，宠爱你自己，为自己买花，让自己的生活充满让你愉悦的各种颜色、各种质地和芳香。

Life always mirrors back to us the feelings we have inside. As you grow in an inner sense of love and romance, the right person to share your growing sense of intimacy will be attracted to you like a magnet. 

生活总是折射出我们自己的心境。当你越来越爱自己，为自己带来浪漫的时候，那个和你志趣相投的人就会被你吸引，就像磁铁相吸一样。

If you want to go from loneliness thinking to fulfillment thinking, then you need to think in terms of creating a loving mental atmosphere within you and around you.

如果你想改变自己的想法，从孤独的惆怅变成满足的愉悦，那么你就要思考如何为自己营造一个充满爱的氛围，这个氛围既要是外在的，也要是内在的。

Do let all those negative thoughts about love and romance just fade away and fill your mind with thoughts of love. Think of sharing love and approval and acceptance with everyone you meet. When you are able to contribute to the fulfillment of your own needs, then you will not be so needy, so codependent. 

让那些消极看待爱情和浪漫的想法随风而去，让你的思绪充满爱。你要想着去向每一个你遇到的人分享爱、支持和接纳。当你能够满足自己的需求时，你就不会那么缺爱、那么依赖他人了。