Blanca: Men need more love, women need more *ex

Welcome to our new English episode!

细心的小伙伴会发现邱后算账有个英文名“Hindsights”（后见之明），这是为专门采访来自其它国家的嘉宾而设置。

本期节目专程邀请来自澳大利亚的委内瑞拉裔朋友，商业分析师，关系教练Blanca Bastos跟我们分享她自己的情感历程，聊聊如何更好地处理分离，分离的意义是什么，以及如何能够有效地和伴侣沟通。

【Timeline】

09:20 Separation is an opportunity to educate ourselves on love and growth

14:40 How to address the fear when we get too intimate with another person

17:33 Levelling up your maturity in love is really a defining process you explore in life 

22:30 Attraction is a necessary but not sufficient condition for a romantic relationship

31:15 How to deal with the "I'm not enough" mentality

40:04 Men who see dating as a hunting game can easily get lost in their emotional world

44:00 What's missing in the feminist movement is men's need for support and guidance from women

50:15 Ways you can use to take care of men's fragile ego in  communication

52:5 How to get out of your comfort zone to share vulnerabilities with your significant one

60:11 *ex is more than a transaction but the totality of who you are as a holistic being

66:15 Last words to youngsters in China from Blanca =)

【节目介绍】

主题曲：珍珠塔·义激陈琏（评弹） 新乐府|国粹Remix-调戏

结尾曲：Mil Pasos Soha D’ici et d’ailleurs

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