Intimate partner violence, sometimes called teen dating violence or domestic violence, is a pattern of behaviors used by one partner to maintain power and control over another partner in an intimate relationship.
亲密伴侣暴力,有时被称为青少年约会暴力或家庭暴力,是在一段亲密关系中一方用于维持权力和控制另一方的行为模式。
An intimate partner is a person's boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, partner or lover.
亲密伴侣是指一个人的男朋友、女朋友、丈夫、妻子、伴侣或情人。
Intimate partner violence may include different kinds of abuse.
亲密伴侣暴力可能包括不同类型的虐待。
Physical abuse may include hitting, kicking, punching or other kinds of physical violence.
身体虐待包括拳打脚踢或其他类型的身体暴力。
Emotional abuse may not include physical violence, but it can be equally as harmful.
精神虐待可能不包含身体暴力,但它同样有害。
When someone is abused emotionally, they may be called names, humiliated, yelled at or made to feel intimidated.
当某人在情感上受到虐待时,他们可能受到了谩骂、羞辱、吼叫或威胁。
The abuser may try to control the other person by telling them what to do, what to wear or where they can and cannot go.
施虐者可能会试图通过命令对方该做什么、该穿什么、能去哪里和不能去哪里来控制对方。
Financial abuse is when a person tries to control and limit their partner's access to money, so that the partner will be dependent on them.
经济虐待指的是一个人试图控制和限制其伴侣获得金钱的途径,这样伴侣就会依赖他。
One example would be if the person discouraged or disallowed the partner to work and make their own money.
比如说,有人阻止或不允许其伴侣工作并自己赚钱。
Another is if the person takes the partner's money or credit cards and refuses to give them back.
有人拿走其伴侣的钱或信用卡,并拒绝归还。
Another form of abuse is known as stalking and harassment.
还有一种形式的虐待叫做跟踪和骚扰。
Stalking or harassing someone may include spying on them, or following them around and constantly showing up where they are or refusing to leave one asked.
跟踪或骚扰某人的行为可能包括监视、跟踪和不断出现在受害者周围并且拒绝离开。
Stalking also can include sending, harassing or unwanted emails texts or posts.
跟踪行为还包括发送骚扰电子邮件、短信或帖子。
Finally there is partner abuse that involves sexual abuse.
最后一种是涉及到性虐待的伴侣虐待。
This type of violence is when a person forces their partner to participate in sexual acts or behaviors without their consent, or ignores the partner sexual boundaries.
这种类型的暴力是指一个人在未经其伴侣同意的情况下强行进行性行为,或者忽略了其伴侣的性界限。
Just because a person is in an intimate relationship doesn't mean that they must have sex with them or do sexual things that they find uncomfortable or demeaning.
因为仅仅是处于亲密关系中却并不意味着他们必须与其伴侣发生性关系,或者进行他们认为不舒服或有损人格的性行为。
If you or someone you know is being abused in a relationship, it's important to know that it's never the fault of the abused person.
如果你或你认识的人在一段关系中受到虐待,你们一定要认识到这绝不是被虐待者的错。
And it's important to ask for help.
而且寻求帮助也很重要。
To get help you can talk to the school counselor, a social worker or another trusted adult.
想要得到帮助,你可以向学校辅导员、社会工作者或其他值得信任的成年人咨询。
Remember domestic violence is not love.
记住,家庭暴力不是爱。
Someone who really loves you wouldn't try to physically harm you, control you, make you feel bad about yourself, or force you to do something that you don't want to do.
一个真正爱你的人不会试图伤害你,控制你,让你觉得自己不好,或者逼你去做你不想做的事情。
A loving and healthy relationship is about consent, respect and honoring who you are as an individual.
一段健康和谐的关系就是赞同、重视和尊重你作为个体的决定。
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