817-Don't be a people pleaser

Let me tell you a story… It’s a story about life… A story about what is likely coming your way. If you don’t understand the power of human life… Then human life will be hard. If you do understand how great you can be… Your life will be whatever you want it to be. 

让我给你讲个故事吧…这是一个关于生活的故事…一个可能会发生在你身上的故事。如果你不了解人类生活的力量，那你的生活将是艰难的。如果你真的意识到你的伟大，那你的生活将会是你想要的样子。

When you grow up, it’s likely many will encourage you down paths you don’t want to go. Paths never meant for you. Many will believe they know what is best for you. How can anyone else know what is best for you. They can’t. Only you know what is best for you. 

当你长大后，很可能很多人会鼓励你沿着你并不想要而且也不适合你的路走下去。许多人会相信别人知道什么最适合你。别人怎么可能知道什么对你最好呢？他们不能，只有你最清楚什么适合自己。

Let me make it clear… No one, not even your mom or your dad, no one, knows what is best for you, exceptyou. Always be gracious enough to listen to others opinions, but be strong enough to know they are just opinions. You decide what is your truth. 

让我来澄清一下…除了你，没有人，即使你的父母也不知道什么最适合你。对他人的意见保持谦恭的同时，你要知道那仅仅是意见而已。是你自己决定你生活的真谛。

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