818-True friend and fake friend

The people you are hanging out with are not your friends. I want you to ask yourself this question. Are they raising you up or pushing you down? Are they helping you grow or holding you back?

和你一起混的人并不一定是你的朋友，我希望你能问自己以下几个问题：他们是在激励你还是推你下水？是助你成长还是拖你后腿？

You have something special inside of you? I can see it. But I feel like the people you hang around, they have their own agendas. And I've had people like this in my life before, people who wanted to get close to me, use me to get what they wanted and then once they got it they left.

你有隐藏的天赋和潜力，我能看到你身上这些亮点。但是那些和你一起厮混的人其实另有所图。我也曾碰到过这样的人，他们想和我拉关系，然后利用我满足自己的私欲，而一旦目标达成，他们就会就抽身而退。

So you can't call everybody your friend. The word friend comes from a European word “freund” meaning to love.

所以你不能称这些人为朋友。“朋友”这个词，来源于欧洲，意思是去爱别人。

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