愿你在独处时也能像在热恋中一样快乐

Relationships, a touchy subject, but if you are always needing another to be happy, to feel complete, then you are always one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you, or unhappiness if the relationship you are in is not going well.

恋爱关系是一个敏感的话题，但如果你总是需要有另一个人才感觉快乐、完整，那如果那个人离开你，你距离崩溃就只有一刻之遥，如果你们的关系进展不太好，你就会不快乐。

I'm not suggesting to avoid relationships, there is no force on earth that is greater than love and connection. I am talking about those who can't live if they aren't in a relationship. Those who will be with just about anyone including all the wrong ones just to avoid spending a moment being single.

我不是在建议你逃避恋爱关系，这世上没有比爱情和心灵的紧密关联更伟大的力量了。我说的是那些不谈恋爱就无法生活的人，他们为了避免单身，随意找个人就确定了关系，甚至是错的人。

What I am saying is to develop enough mental strength that you get to the point where you don't need others to make you happy. You are just as happy being alone as you are in a relationship.

我想说的是要让自己的内心足够强大，强大到不需要恋人就能感到开心。愿你在独处时也能像在热恋中一样快乐。