When one reaches a certain age, it’s important to understand the value of being calm, and going with the flow . Cherish what comes and let go of what leaves. What can be kept doesn‘t require force, and what can’t be kept doesn‘t require effort. 人到了一定年龄,要懂得静而不争,万般随缘,来者要惜,去者要放。 留得住的,无需用力,留不住的,无需费力。