用他的语言说话

If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head.If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.
如果你用一个人听得懂的语言和他说话，他会记住你的话。如果你用他的语言和他说话，那就会进入他的心。作者：纳尔逊•曼德拉，诺贝尔和平奖得主，1994年至1999年间任南非总统。