为啥瑞典人不爱和陌生人说话

Why Swedes don’t speak to strangers

In many cultures, striking up a conversation with a stranger is the norm, and could even lead to a budding friendship. But not for the Swedes.

Here, small talk is seen as futile, and is referred to as kallprat ("cold talk") or dödprat ("dead talk"). To avoid ending up in these situations, many Swedes have made an art of avoiding eye contact with strangers and acquaintances they might come across in the street by looking at their phones or staring at shopping windows instead. For Swedes, the purpose of talking is to exchange meaningful information, and engaging in purposeless chit-chat simply hasn't been valued – until now.

For the past four weeks, Luleå, the 80,000-person capital of Sweden's northernmost county, has been encouraging residents to greet to one another as part of an official campaign aptly called "Säg hej" (Say hello). The city is located so far north that residents see as little as three hours of sunlight in the dead of winter, which may contribute to their reputation for being reserved. In fact, people in Luleå are known to speak so little to one another that the word "yes" is often replaced with a sharp intake of breath. Officials are therefore hoping the campaign may help lift the mood of locals – especially those who may feel lonely.

"Saying hello to your neighbours is a small thing, but research shows that it can contribute to social bonds and has a positive impact on health, safety and wellbeing," wrote city officials.

Beyond  Luleå, visitors to Sweden who attempt to start an informal conversation with a shopkeeper or waiter, even with the local greeting of “hej”, are likely to be met with a flat “hej” in response, often with a subtext of faint irritation or mistrust. Experts say this reserve could be due to Sweden being a sparsely populated country in a relatively vast landscape, whereby for hundreds of years, people grew accustomed to rarely speaking with those outside their immediate circle.