Good jobs are now disappearing. There are great jobs and great careers and then there are the high workload, high stress, blood sucking, soul destroying kinds of jobs. And practically in between, the people looking for good jobs are gonna fail. I wanna talk about those looking for great jobs, great careers and why you're going to fail.
优秀的职位正在逐渐消失。存在着卓越的工作和事业,但也有高强度、高压力、剥削性质的工作,这些工作会摧毁人的灵魂。实际上,在这两者之间寻找理想职位的人很可能失败。我想探讨一下那些追求卓越工作和事业的管理者,并解释为什么你可能会遇到困难。
First reason is that no matter how many times people tell you, you, if you want a great career, you have to pursue your passion, you have to pursue your dreams, you have to pursue the you're the greatest fascination in your life. You hear it again and again and then you decide not to do it.
第一个原因是,不管人们告诉你多少次,如果你想要一个伟大的事业,你必须追求你的激情,你必须追求你的梦想,你必须追求你生命中最吸引你的事物。你听了一次又一次,然后你决定不去做。
It doesn't matter how many times you download Steven Jays Stanford commencement address, you still look at it and decide not to do it. I'm not quite sure why you decide not to do it. You're too lazy to do it. It's too hard. You're afraid if you look for your passion and don't find it, you'll feel like you're an idiot . So then you make excuses about why you're not going to look for your passion and they are excusesladies and gentlemen we're gonna go through a whole long list.
不管你下载了多少次史蒂文·杰伊的斯坦福毕业典礼演讲,你还是会看着它,然后决定不去做。我不太明白你为什么决定不做这件事。你太懒了,不想做这件事。太难了。你害怕如果你去寻找你的激情却找不到,你会觉得自己像个白痴。所以你会找借口说为什么你不去寻找你的激情,这些都是借口,女士们先生们,我们会列出一长串的借口。
Your creativity and thinking of excuses not to do what you really need to do if you want to have a great career for, excuse me. So for example,one of your great excuses is, well, great careers are really and truly for most people just a matter of luck. So I'm gonna stand around, I'm gonna try to be lucky and if I'm lucky, I'll be have a great career. If not, I'll have a good career, but a good career is an impossibility. So that's not gonna work.
你的创造力和找借口不去做你真正需要做的事如果你想有一个伟大的事业,不好意思。例如,你的一个很好的借口是,好吧,伟大的事业对大多数人来说真的只是运气问题。所以我要站着,我要试着幸运,如果我幸运的话,我会有一个伟大的事业。如果没有,我会有一个好的事业,但一个好的事业是不可能的。所以这行不通。
Then your other excuse is, yes, there are special people who pursue their passions, but they are geniuses. They are Steven Jay. I'm not a genius, but I still want a great career. I'm not prepared to pursue my passion. So I know what I'm going to dobecause I have a solution. I have a strategy. It's the one mommy and daddy told me about. Mommy and daddy told me that if I worked hard, I'd have a good career. So if you work hard and have a good career, if you work really hard, you'll have a great career. Doesn'tthat like mathematically make sense? Not,you know what? you'll succeed. The world will give you the opportunity to work really hard.
然后你的另一个借口是,是的,有一些特殊的人追求他们的激情,但他们是天才。他们是史蒂文·杰伊。我不是天才,但我还是想成就一番事业。我还没准备好追求我的激情。我知道我要做什么,因为我有一个解。我有个策略。是爸爸妈妈跟我说过的。爸爸妈妈告诉我,如果我努力工作,我就会有一个好事业。所以如果你努力工作,有一个好的事业,如果你真的努力工作,你就会有一个伟大的事业。这在数学上说得通吗?不,你知道吗?你会成功的。这个世界会给你真正努力工作的机会。
But are you so surethatthat's going to give you a great career? when all the evidence is to the contrary? So let'sdeal with those of you who are trying to find your passion. You actually understand that you really had better do it.
但你真的确定这会给你带来伟大的事业吗?当所有的证据都是相反的时候?那么,让我们来谈谈那些正在努力寻找激情的人。你真的明白你最好去做。
Never mind the excuses. Passion is your greatest love. Passion is a thing that will help you create the highest expression of your talent, passion, interest, it's not the same thing what you want is passion. it is beyond interest, you need 20 interests and then one of them one of them might be grab you one of them might engage you more than anything else and then you may have found your greatest love in comparison to all the other things that interest you, and that's what passion is in spite of all these excuses, you will find your passion and you'll still fail you're gonna fail because because you're not going to do it, because you have invented a new excuse any excuse to fail to take action in this excuse I've heard so many times yes, I would pursue a great career, but a value human relationships more than accomplishment.
别再找借口了。激情是你最大的爱。激情是一种东西,它将帮助你创造出你的天赋、激情和兴趣的最高表达,这和你想要的激情是不一样的。它超越了兴趣,你需要20个兴趣,然后其中一个,一个可能会抓住你,其中一个可能比其他任何事情都更吸引你,然后你可能已经找到了你最大的爱。与所有其他让你感兴趣的事情相比,这就是激情尽管有所有这些借口,你会找到你的激情,但你仍然会失败,你会失败因为、因为你不会去做,因为你发明了一个新的借口任何借口,不采取行动,这个借口我听过很多次了,是的,我会追求伟大的事业,但人际关系比成就更重要。
I wanna be a great friend. I want to be a great spouse. I want to be a great parent. And I will not sacrifice them on the altar of great accomplishment. The kid will come to you someday and say, I know I wanna be. I know what I'm gonna do with my life. You were so happy.
我想成为一个好朋友。我想成为一个好丈夫。我想成为一个好父母。我也不把他们献在伟大成就的祭坛上。孩子有一天会对你说,我知道我想成为。我知道我这辈子要做什么。你那么开心。
It's the conversation a parent wants to hear. Cuz your kids good in math and you're going to like what comes next, says your kid, I have decided I want to be a magician. I wanna perform magic tricks on the stage. And what do you say? You say that's risky,kid,might fail, kid,don't make a lot of money at that, kid, I don't know kid you should think about that again kid, you're so good at math, why don't you and that kid interrupts you and says but it is my dream to do this,and what are you going to say? You know what you're gonna say look kid, I had a dream once too but, but so how are you gonna finish the sentence with your but? But I'd dream to once, kid, but I was afraid to pursue it or are you gonna tell him this? I had a dream once kid, but then you were born.
这是家长想听的对话。因为你的孩子数学很好,你会喜欢接下来发生的事情,你的孩子说,我决定要成为一名魔术师。我想在舞台上表演魔术。你怎么说?你说这很冒险,孩子,可能会失败,孩子,不要赚很多钱,孩子,我不知道孩子你应该再考虑一下孩子,你数学这么好,你为什么不然后那个孩子打断你说但这是我的梦想,你会说什么?你知道你会说什么吗孩子,我也做过一个梦但是,但是那么你要怎么用你的但是来结束这个句子呢?但我曾经梦想过,孩子,但我不敢去做还是你要告诉他这个?我曾经有过一个梦想,但后来你出生了。
Do you really want to use your family? Do you really ever wanna look at your spouse and your kid and see your jailers? There was something you could have said to your kid. when he or she said, I have a dream. You could have said, lookedthe kid in the face and said, go for it, kid!, just like I did. But you won't be able to say that.Because you didn't. So you can't. Andsothe sinsofthe parents are visited on the poor children.
你真的想利用你的家人吗?你真的想看着你的配偶和孩子就像看着你的狱卒吗?你本可以对你的孩子说点什么。当他或她说,我有一个梦想。你可以说,看着那孩子的脸说,去吧,孩子!就像我一样。但你不能这么说。因为你没有。所以你不能。于是父母的罪孽就落到可怜的孩子身上。
Why will you seek refuge in human relationships, as your excuse not to find and pursue your passion? You know why in your heart of hearts,you knowwhy, and I being deadly serious,you know why you would get all warm and fuzzy and wrap yourself up in human relationships? It is cuz you are, you know what you are. You were afraid to pursue your passion. You're afraid to look ridiculous. You're afraid to try. You're afraid you may fail.
为什么你要在人际关系中寻求庇护,作为你不去寻找和追求你的激情的借口?你知道为什么在你内心深处,你知道为什么,我是非常认真的,你知道为什么你会变得那么温暖,毛茸茸,把自己包裹在人际关系中吗?因为你知道自己是谁。你不敢追求自己的激情。你害怕看起来很可笑。你害怕尝试。你害怕你会失败。
Great friend, great spouse, great parent.greatcareer, is that not a package. Is that not who you are? How canyoube one without the other? But you are afraid, and that's why you are not going to have a great career.
好朋友,好伴侣,好父母。伟大的事业,这不是一体的吗?你不是这样的人吗?你怎么能只有一个而不管其他呢?但你害怕,这就是为什么你不会有伟大的事业。
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