Get a Thorough Understanding of Oneself

Get a Thorough Understanding of Oneself
悟透自己

In all one’s lifetime, it is oneself that one spends the most time being with or dealing with. But it is precisely oneself that one has the least understanding of.

To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to gain a correct view of oneself and be a sober realist --- aware of both one’s strength and shortage. You may look forward hopefully to the future but be sure not to expect too much, for ideals can never be fully realized. You may be courageous to meet challenges but it should be clear to you where to direct your efforts. So long as you have a perfect knowledge of yourself there won’t be difficulties you can’t overcome, nor obstacles you can’t surmount.

To get a thorough understanding of oneself needs self-appreciation. Whether you liken yourself to a towering tree or a blade of grass, whether you think you are a high mountain or a small stone, you represent a state of nature that has its own reason there. If you earnestly admire yourself, you’ll have a real sense of self-appreciation, which will give you confidence. As soon as you gain full confidence in yourself, you’ll be enabled to fight and overcome any adversity.

To get a thorough understanding of oneself also requires doing oneself a favour when it’s needed. In time of anger, do yourself a favour by giving vent to it in a quiet place so that you won’t be hurt by its flames; in time of sadness, do yourself a favour by sharing it with your friends so as to change a gloomy mood into a cheerful one; in time of tiredness, do yourself a favour by getting a good sleep or taking some tonic. Show yourself loving concern about your health and daily life. As you are aware, what a person physically has is but a human body that’s vulnerable when exposed to the elements. So if you fall ill, it’s up to you to take a good care of yourself. Unless you know perfectly well when and how to do yourself a favour, you won’t be confident and ready to resist the attack of illness.

To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to get a full control of one’s life. Then one will find one’s life full of color and flavor.