All Right With the Relation “Oh, you're Charlie's sister?” “No,Charlie's my brother.” For as long as I can remember,this has been a recurring conversation starter among my peers.I’m only 20 months older than Charlie, so we run in similar social circles.He is joyous, untroubled, and effortlessly good with people I am none of those things. “Charlie's sister” used to remind me of the qualities I lacked,until Charlie enrolled in boarding school.Missing him,I realized: How lucky am I to be the sister of the most likable person I know? H -Lily Bernstein