809-Never judge others

When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.

当你评判别人时，你不是在定义他们，而是在定义你自己。人们如何对待你是他们事，你对此作何反应是你的事。

Judging others says nothing about them, but says a lot about our need to judge and our insecurities. Secure people don't judge.

对别人的评判并不能说明别人是怎样的人，但却能说明我们对评判的需求感和我们的不安全感。心安的人不会评判他人。

Do your best to understand where others are coming from, and if you can't understand… move on and let them live their life however they wish to live it.

尽你最大的努力去理解别人，如果你不能理解，那就只管让他们按照自己的意愿去生活就好。

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