21.What is a good choice?
Teacher Zhang Xiaoyu talked about a way to do things. He said, if you are faced with two options, but none of them is obviously better than the other, how can you choose? Then choose any one and make it a good choice.
This sentence sounds very eye-catching and refreshing. Why? You think, in our habitual thinking, we always want to make a choice to live a good life, what to choose a good school, a good job, a good stock, a good spouse, to optimize ourselves.
But looking back at these choices, you will find that they are often divided into two categories. The first choice is that there seems to be a choice, but actually there is no choice. For example, a good school is there, but I can't get it, so it's not a real option for me to exist now.
The second one seems to be very important. In fact, it's almost the same to choose one. For example, how do you know which is better before you try to choose a spouse or a job.
So you see, the most important variable of a person is not to make a choice, but to make a good choice after working hard.
什么是好选择?
张潇雨老师说到一个做事的方法。他说,如果你现在面对两个选项,但是呢,没有其中任何一个选项明显能好过另外一个,那咋选呢?那就随便选一个好了,然后把它变成一个好选择。
这句听着非常醒目提神。为啥?你想,在我们习惯的思维里,总是想通过做选择来过好这一生,什么选个好学校、好工作、好股票、好配偶,来优化自己。
但是回头一看这些选择,你会发现,其实往往分成两类。第一种选择呢,是看似有的选,但其实没得选。比如,好学校就在那里,但是我考不取啊,所以它并不是我在当下存在的真实的选项。
而第二种呢,是看似很重要,其实纠结来纠结去,选哪个也都差不多。比如选配偶、选工作,在努力之前,你咋知道哪个好呢。
所以你看,人最重要的变量不是做选择,而是在努力之后把选择变成好选择。
重点词汇
better than 比…好
make a choice 作出选择
there is 有
For example 例如;比如
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