Susan三叶草 2021年9月11日 下午1:24

I participate in these discussions with more history than my students do, but I follow the same rules. We are there to explore not what we hope will happen to us but rather what the theories predict will happen to us,as a result of different decisions and actions. Because I've been present in these discussions over many years, I've learned more about these issues than any one group of my students ever has.To even the score with them,however, I have shared stories about how these theories have played out in my life.
To help structure this discussion, I write the theories we have studied along the top of the chalkboard. Then I write three simple questions beside those theories:
How can I be sure that
1.I will be successful and happy in my career?
2.My relationships with my spouse, my children, and my extended family and close friends become an enduring source of happiness?
3.I live a life of integrity- and stay out of jail?
These questions might sound simple,but they are questions that so many of my classmates never asked, or had asked but lost track of what they learned.
Year after year I have been stunned at how the theories of the course illuminate issues in our personal lives as they do in the companies we've studied.In this book,I will try to summarize some of the best of the insights my students and I have discussed on that last day in class.
我参与这些讨论的历史比我的学生要多，但我遵循同样的规则。我们不是来探索我们希望发生在我们身上的事情，而是探索这些理论预测会发生在我们身上的事情，作为不同的决定和行动的结果。因为多年来我一直都在参与，我对这些问题的了解比我的任何一群学生都多。然而，为了和他们扯平比分，我分享了一些关于这些理论在我生活中如何发挥作用的故事。
为了帮助组织这次讨论，我把我们研究过的理论写在黑板的最上面。除了这些理论，我还写了三个简单的问题:
我怎么能确定
我会在事业上获得成功和快乐？
我与配偶、孩子、大家庭和密友的关系成为持久的快乐源泉？
我过着正直的生活-不进监狱？
这些问题听起来可能很简单，但它们是我的许多同学从未问过的问题，或者问了却忘了他们学到了什么。
年复一年，我一直惊讶于我们研究过的这门课程的理论阐明我们个人生活中的问题就像公司的阐明一样。在这本书里，我将尝试总结一些我和我的学生在最后一天的课讨论过的最好的见解。