Core idea • We human beings, are species that is not only capable of acting on hidden motives-we are designed to do it • Our brains are built to act in our self interests, while in the same time not appear selfish in front of other people • In order to throw them off the trial, our brain often keep “us” , our conscious minds in the dark • Unless we know of our ugly motives, the easier ti is to hide them from others
Self-deception is therefore strategic • A play we do to look good , while behaving badly
If we keep tip toe around it , we cannot think clearly about human behaviors
=========================================== What is the elephants -selfishness part of our psyches
Human beings are self-deceived because self-deception is useful. It allows us to reap the benefits of selfish behavior while posing as unselfish in front of others, it helps us look better than we really are