20 Things Confident People Don't Do

Number 1 - They Don't Over-Focus On Appearance

When someone is self-confident, they have a healthy relationship with their appearance. They stay fit and well-groomed, and they eat healthy foods, because they know their bodies deserve to be cared for properly. Confident people improve the things they can, strive to put their best foot forward, and then accept themselves as they are.

第一，他们不过度关注自己的外貌。自信的人对自己的外貌抱有积极的态度。他们保持健康，打扮得体，他们吃健康的食物，因为他们知道要爱惜自己的身体。自信的人会积极改善周围的事物，做事情总是全力以赴，并且他们能接纳自己本来的样子。

Number 2 - They Don't Try To Change Their Personality

Whether someone's an introvert or an extrovert, they can still be confident. Confident people understand that self-assurance comes from feeling good about who they are and what they can achieve by being completely authentic. They don't try to be someone they're not, because they understand that self-acceptance is a vital element of self-confidence.

第二，他们不会强求改变自己的性格。无论人们是内向还是外向，他们都可以很自信。自信的人知道，自信来源于保持本真，对自己感到愉悦，对自己的成就感到满意。他们不强迫自己变成别人的样子，因为他们明白，悦纳自己是自信的重要组成部分。

Number 3 - They Don't Chase Likes And Follows On Social Media

For confident people, social media is about sharing what's happening - and not a place for being worshiped. They don't get disappointed when they post something and get only two thumbs up on it. You may also find their profiles to be more interesting, and less self-centered than insecure people. They would rather post a quote they love, or a picture of a tree than a flaming hot selfie!

第三，他们不在社交媒体上随波逐流。对于自信的人而言，社交媒体只是一个分享日常生活的工具，它不是为了让人们感到被膜拜而存在的。如果他们发的动态只得了一两个赞，他们也不会感到失望。你也许会发现，比起那些缺乏安全感的人，他们的头像更有趣，没有那些人的那么自恋。他们更愿意用一句自己喜欢的话、或者一棵树来做头像，而不是用一张火辣的自拍。

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