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选择所爱

就算你做你不想做的事，都有可能会失败。倒不如冒险去做自己所热爱的事。

Now fear is going to be a player in your life, you get to decide how much ,you could spend your wholelife imagining ghosts, worrying about the pathway to the future, but all therewill ever be is what’s happening here, in the decisions we make in this moment,which are based in either love or fear. So many of us choose our path out offear disguised aspracticality . 

恐惧将在你的人生中扮演一个重要的角色，你来决定它的分量。你可以穷尽一生想象心中的鬼怪，担心通往未来的路。但是往后的一切，来自于我们此刻所做的决定。而这一刻我们所做的决定，取决于你的爱或者恐惧。我们大多数人都因为恐惧而选择了貌似实际的道路。

My father could have been a greatcomedian, but he didn’t believe that was possible for him. And so, he made aconservative choice. Instead , he got a safe job as an accountant, and when Iwas 12 years old, he was let go from that safe job. And our family had to dowhatever we could to survive. I learned many great lessons from my father, notthe least of which, was that you can fail at what you don’t want, so you mightas well take a chance on doing what you love, because everything you gain inlife will rot and fall apart, and all that will be left of you, is what was inyour heart.

我的父亲本可以成为一个伟大的喜剧演员，但是他不相信自己可以办到。所以他做了一个保守的决定。他找了一份安稳的会计工作。然而在我12岁的时候。他丢了那份安稳的工作。我们一家必须竭尽所能谋取生计。我从我父亲身上学到了许多宝贵的经验。其中最重要的一个，就算你做你不想做的事，都有可能会失败。倒不如冒险去做自己所热爱的事。因为在生活中你所得到的每一样东西，终将腐朽消失。仅剩下来的只有存在于你内心的东西。

I’ve often said that I wish people could realize alltheir dreams in wealth and fame and.., so that they could see that it’s notwhere you’re gonna find your sense of completion. I can tell you fromexperience, the effect you have on others, is the most valuable currency thereis.

我经常说，我希望人们可以实现，他们所有的财富与名誉有关的梦想，这样他们就会发现这并不是他们能够找到的圆满自我的所在。
我可以从经验上告诉你，你对他人的影响是你最珍贵的财富。

What we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculousto expect, so we never dared ask the universe for it. I’m saying, I’m the proofthat you can ask the universe for it. As far as I can tell it’s just aboutletting the universe know what you want and working toward it, while letting goof how it comes to pass.

我们真正想要的东西往往遥不可及，而且看似荒诞，所以我们从来不敢开口向宇宙索取，我想说的是，我就是个例子，证明你可以向你索取你想要的东西。我能告诉你，宇宙知道你想要什么。然后努力朝着目标前进不要在意这个目标是如何达成的。

Your job is not to figure out how it’s gonna happen foryou, but to open the door in your head, and when the door opens in real life,just walk through it. And don’t worry if you miss your cue, because there’s alwaysdoors opening, they keep opening. And when I say life doesn’t happen to you, ithappens for you. I really don’t know if that’s true. I am just making a consciouschoice to perceive challenges as something beneficial., so that I can deal withthem in the most productive way. 

你的责任不是去弄明白，它是如何发生在你身上？而是打开你大脑中的那扇门，当现实中的那道门敞开时，穿过它就够了。不要担心你会得不到提示，因为总会有门为你打开，他们不断的打开。而当我说生命不是发生在你身上，它为你而发生。我确实也不知道这是不是真的。我只不过是做了一个有意识的决定。将挑战视为有益的东西。如此一来我就能够以最有效的方式面对他。

Why not take a chance on faith as well? Not religionbut faith, not hope but faith. I don’t believe in hope. Hope is a bagger. Hopewalks through the fire and faith leaps over it.

为什么不选择相信自己的信念？不是宗教，是信念，不是希望，而是信任。我不相信希望，希望就像是一个乞讨者。希望助你走过火堆，而信念则带你跃过它。

 You are ready and able to dobeautiful things in this world. And after you walk through those doors today,you will only have two choices: love or fear, Choose love and don’t ever letfear turn you against your playful heart.

你已经准备好且具备能力，在这个世界上做出动人的事情。在今天你穿过那些大门的时候，你只会有两个选择：爱或者恐惧。选择爱，不要让恐惧泯灭了你那颗年轻的心灵。