Bully-一个13岁的孩子到底遭遇了什么

Bully 已经成为各国校园中的一个让人十分头疼的现象。

很多在学生时代被bully的人，成年后都会或多或少的留下心理阴影。

 

今天我们要讲的这个男孩 就是bully的受害者。

 

The thirteen-year-old boy named Danny Fitzpatrick.

他在纽约布鲁克林的一所中学上学。

And his battle with bullies was so severe that it resulted in the decision to take his own life. 

这个男孩用极端的方式结束了自己被Bully的生活。

 

He hanged himself at home and left behind a heartbreaking note.

 

在他留下的书信中，这个13岁的男孩说：

"I am writing this letter to tell about my experience in Holy Angels Catholic Academy. At first it was good . . . lots of friends, good grades and great life. But I moved（搬走了） and went back but it was different. My old friends changed, they didn't talk to me they didn't even like me."

 

在此前，他搬过一次家，离开了原来的学校一段时间。后来他又回到了这个学校。却发现一切都变了，他之前的朋友对他的态度不一样了。

 

The bullies would follow him after school, taunting (嘲弄，辱骂) him and urging him to fight them. 

 

His mother, Maureen, said "My son's not a fighter… … My son just wanted some friends. He needed a friend. Even one friend, I think he would have been OK."

 

其实，在儿子出事以前，他的父亲曾经到学校找校长讨论这件事情。 但他父亲表示” All we got was, 'He'll be fine. Is he in counseling? You have to try harder Danny. . . . These things will pass; children can be such horrible creatures.”

 

不管是什么原因，一个这么小的孩子选择这么极端的方式来应对被bully这件事，真的让人十分心痛。 

你生活中有没有遇到这种状况？ 

或者你看到别人遇到这种被bully的情况 你觉得应该怎么解决呢？