Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus
[00:14.72]The love between the Venusians and Martians was magical.
[00:19.80]They delighted in being together
[00:22.17]and forget that they from different planets,
[00:24.91]and were supposed to be different.
[00:27.22]And one morning,
[00:28.71]everything they had learned about their differences
[00:31.33]was erased from their memory.
[00:33.17]And since that day,
[00:34.81]men and women have been in conflict.
[00:37.43]The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men
[00:41.43]is that men don't listen.
[00:44.08]Either a man completely ignores her when she speaks,
[00:47.27]or he listens for a few beats,
[00:49.39]assesses what is bothering her and gives her a solution.
[00:53.62]No matter how many times she tells him that he's not listening,
[00:57.66]he doesn't get it,
[00:59.46]and he keeps doing the same thing.
[01:01.47]She wants empathy; he thinks she wants solution.
[01:05.65]The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women
[01:09.90]is that women are always trying to change them.
[01:12.84]When a woman loves a man,
[01:14.56]she feels responsible to assist him in growing
[01:17.65]and tries to help him improve the way he does things.
[01:21.15]She thinks she's nurturing him,
[01:23.66]while he feels he's being controlled.
[01:26.34]Martians value power,
[01:28.65]competency, efficiency, and achievement.
[01:31.50]To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume
[01:35.73]that he can't do it on his own.
[01:37.62]Men are very touchy about this,
[01:39.84]because the issue of competence is so important to them.
[01:43.27]Love is magical,
[01:45.34]and it can last if we remember our differences.
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