19-5-15【地道美语099】社交新技能：如何成为大方自信有魅力的人

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dialogue 1

Jingjing: Mark, great to see you again.

Mark:  Youtoo, Jingjing.  Anything --------------------?

Jingjing: Not really, now that the holiday's ------ and there won't be another onefor a while.  Hey, a friend of mine was asking about -----------.  Doyou have any ideas I could share with her?

Mark:  That'sa big topic, and a lot of the same----------.  But they reallywork.

Jingjing: So, what are the best --------------?

Mark:  I wasjust reading a wikihow page to ---------speaking class.  One of them wasto make more -----------------------.

Jingjing:  Iknow from broadcasting that's ---------------------.

Mark:  Yeah,but people do less of it than ---------.  The best time to make eyecontact is --------.  That's when you should watch the other person's ------------.

Jingjing:  Ibet that lets them know --------- what you think.

Mark:  Right. And you can see if they need to know more, ----------- what you'resaying—all that.

Jingjing: Um, what if ----------------------?  Should you make eye contactwith everyone?

Mark:  Thatmight be a little --------.  But that reminds me: I read that when you'rewith the boss and a----------------- at your coworkers after the boss has saidsomething.

Jingjing: Hmm, I'm not sure that has much to do --------------------, but it mightbe worth a try.  What else could you suggest?

Mark:  Well, -------- very important.  Charismatic people stand ---------------.

Jingjing: Most people know that—except for you, Mark.  ----------a slouch.

Mark:  Ha ha. Yeah, I really need to get to the---------------- my back.

dialogue 2

Jingjing: So, Mark, do you have any more ideas ---------------------?

Mark:  Yes. One of them has to do with taking up -----------------.

Jingjing:  Isthat like using gestures ------------------body position?

Mark:  Thosetwo things are part of it.  A confident person---------.  So, if youstay on the side, people won't---------.  But if you stay near the --------------,people will expect you to be --------------------

Jingjing:  Iheard also that it's a good idea to --------------in front of a mirror.

Mark:  Yeah, --------------------. So, if someone's boss has told a ---------joke, it's good to be able tosmile ------------------------------.

Jingjing: What do you suggest about ---------------------?

Mark:  Well,you know, when you meet people, they usually ask you the same few questions: -------------. So, instead of just answering them, -------, tell them something theymight not know, like --------or the summer heat gets up to 33 degrees on a ---------------------.

Jingjing: Don't say too much, though, when you've just met someone, right?

Mark:  Right. -----------------.  If they want to keep talking with you, theycould ask you a ------------ that.

Jingjing: But you should get someone-----------------, shouldn't you?

Mark:  Don'tever ---------make new friends.  But, if someone is talking about theirlife, it's good to -------- and ask questions to-------------------.

Jingjing: Anything else?

Mark:  --------------------Especiallywhen you're meeting someone ----------------, this will help you remember theirname next time ------------

Jingjing: That's a cool --------------, simple and easy.

new words andphrases

from dialogue 1

charismatic  fullof good energy, powerful and attractive around people

ideas get tossedaround  peoplemention the same things on a topic (also, names get tossed around)

eye contact  lookingat someone's eyes when talking

(Ben Franklinsaid, when you are talking to a person, look at their eyes; and, when they aretalking to you, look at their mouth.)

posture the way a personstands or sits

slouch  standingor sitting with your head forward and your back bent

from dialogue 2

taking up  using, occupying

gestures  handmovements when someone talks

a fun fact  apiece of information that is interesting and easy to remember