Oh, honey! Listen, in books they say that true love always faces obstacles. Either the lovers have different social standings, or else they were very different ages, or else their guardians and advisors said no, or, even if the lovers are a good match, their love might be ruined by war, death, or sickness, so that the affair only lasts an instant. Their time together might be as fleeting as a shadow or as short as a dream, lasting only as long as it takes a lightning bolt to flash across the sky. Before you can say “look,” it’s gone.