874-Everything can be an opportunity

Your parents may be smothering and obnoxious, but they do it because they care about you and it’s the only way they know how to show it. Be grateful you have people who love you, even if they don’t show it in the way you wish they did. Use it as an opportunity to help them, communicate with them, develop a better relationship with them.

你的父母可能什么事情都想管，甚至有点讨厌，但他们这样做是因为他们在乎你，这是他们知道的唯一表达爱的方式。这世上有人爱你，即便他们表达爱的方式可能并不如你所愿，你也要心存感激。不如把这作为帮助他们的机会，真心与他们沟通，与他们建立起更好的关系。

You may be overweight, but at least you’ve enjoyed plenty of good food and have the knowledge and capability to get thin and look great. Use it as an opportunity to set goals and improve yourself. 

你可能偏胖，但至少你享受了很多好吃的，而且你拥有减肥的知识和能力。把这作为你设定目标、提升自我的机会吧！ 

You may be single and lonely, but at least you live in a society which accepts open communication between men and women, it’s liberal about dating practices, and at least you have the means to get out there and improve your situation. 

你或许是单身，内心孤独，但至少你生活在一个异性可以自由沟通的社会中，你可以自由约会，至少你拥有摆脱单身、提升自己境遇的方法。

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