825-Make your own decisions

It is human nature to want to be liked, loved and accepted. However, if you worry too much about the opinion of others, you run the real risk of being held hostage and through fear, never becoming the person you were supposed to be.

想要被喜欢、被爱、被接受是人之本性。然而，如果你过分担心别人的意见，就会将自己置于险境。并且出于恐惧，你会被人牵着鼻子走，你再也无法成为真正的自己。

And nothing scares me more than the thought that something so insignificant can have such a significant impact over someone’s life.

一个微不足道的想法就能对一个人的生活有如此重大的影响，恐怕没有这个更可怕的事情了。

If you knew you are going to die tomorrow, would you really care what people thought of your decisions today?

如果你知道你明天就要死了，你真的会在乎今天人们对你的决定怎么看吗？

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