44.What is near thinking

44.What is "near thinking"?
In the great me, there is a more understandable saying called "near thinking".
To put it bluntly, don't think too far, just say what I should do now, at this moment, myself and near.
For example, don't think that after I can go out, I'll buy a fitness card to keep fit and reduce the long meat for the Spring Festival. It's too far away. Close thinking is to stand up now, take two steps, watch TV, try to stand and watch.
For another example, don't think I'll make a year-round study plan. It's too far away. My recent thinking is to open the book I want to read most, even one page.
In this "near thinking" mode, you will find that many problems are actually pseudo problems. For example, ask a female entrepreneur, how do you balance work and family? Only when we stand far away can we have this problem.
Looking closer, we can see that work is what we need to do and family is what we need to take care of. There is no principle of balance. There is only the problem of doing our best at every moment of choice.
什么是“近的思维”？
《了不起的我》里面，还有一个更便于理解的说法，叫“近的思维”。
说白了就是，别想太远，就说眼下、此刻、我自己、近处我该怎么办。
比如，别想着等可以出门之后，我去买个健身卡去健身，把春节长的肉减下来，这个太远了。近的思维是现在就站起来走两步，看电视尽量站着看。
再比如，别想着我要搞个全年的学习计划，这个太远了。近的思维是，现在就打开最想看的书，哪怕看一页也行。
在这种“近的思维”模式下，你会发现，很多问题其实是伪问题。比如，问一位女性创业者，你怎么平衡工作和家庭？站远了看，才有这个问题。
而站近了看，该工作就工作，该照顾家庭就照顾家庭，不存在平衡的原则问题，只存在在每一个选择关头尽心、尽力、尽本分的问题啊。
重点词汇
In the great 总括
there is 有
at this moment 此刻;目前;眼下
For example 例如;比如
Spring Festival 春节
far away 在远处
stand up 站 ; 立 ; 站立 ; 起立 ; 站起来 ; 经得起检验，能够成立 ; 爽约，放…的鸽子
watch TV 看电视