Mentally Fragile to Mentally STRONG!

Most of this generation quits the second they get talked to you did this wrong  you did this wrong or they get yelled at  it's so easy to be great nowadays because everybody else is most people are weak this this is a softened  generation so if you have any mental  toughness any of any ability you have  any fraction of self-discipline the  ability to not want to do it but still do it if you can get through to doing  things that you hate to do on the other  side is greatness 
What is it with our society we are creating weak individuals, individuals that can't handle anything  going wrong in their life as soon as  something goes wrong they are given a  prescription not to fix the problem to  mask the problem how about giving  strategies to strengthen the mind how  about saying okay you've allowed your  life to get to this point now take responsibility and dive deep into  personal development learn why you feel this way not because of the event the scientific facts about why you feel the way you do and what you can do to  strengthen it  the moment they are criticized rather  than take any of it on board rather than  prove any of those people wrong they give up they attempt to defend the  criticism with useless talk but never  with definitive action the moment they are challenged they crumble but the  moment things get hard they declare  defeat it must not be for me it was  their fault if they didn't do this or  treat me like this or say this then I  would have made it No you're just soft  you're weak  tell yourself the truth because until you do that until you look in the mirror  and acknowledge that you are the problem  you'll never be able to grow into the person that is capable of achieving all  those things you want you are the  problem  the only problem your mindset is the problem your attitude is the problem it  is no one else's fault it's yours if you  want the good news you are also the  solution you and only you if you have  character that statement will change  your life if you have no character  you'll remain an average complaining  hater like most other people you are your only problem and you are the only  solution sure big things happen tragic  loss things  no one would deserve I'm not talking  about those things I'm talking about the people who are one job loss away from a breakdown one relationship breakup away  from depression  one argument ruins their entire week  come on people this is not how to live  even with the big stuff if you have  perspective and you know who you are if you really really appreciate everything  you do have and believe everything is as it should be all of those big things can  be handled much better knowing your  loved one would want you to be happy and  move on knowing that living in pain and  holding on to resentment is letting that  person who did you wrong win but let him go and live in your life loving your life  that is you saying I will  that is you saying I will not allow you  to own any any piece of my mind it's  spirit that is true courage and mental  strength  and I'm not saying avoid pain pain  suffering failures they are all part of  every single person's life there's  varying levels of pain for sure some suffer more than others but we all  suffer at some level some choose  consciously or unconsciously to live in  that pain and some decide to move on  you deserve to move on mental strength  comes from those struggles it is formed  from pain it is increased when you  refuse think of a bad times when most  others would it grows when you keep  going when things seem impossible it  grows when you push one more time past  what you thought was your limit it grows  with consistency that is mental strength 
Excuses are for weak individuals  individuals who have no heart take responsibility for where you are now and  commit to do something anything whatever  it takes to make sure your future is better you do have the choice you can make excuses and stay where you are or you can take responsibility take action and get where you need to go where you  deserve to go what do you choose  
These hot dance around the truth by finding the right worse I don't hurt you  because you have thin skin no tighten up  people it's okay  trust me it's okay you might be called  nigger one day it's okay you might be  called some Jewish word or some faggot  or gay word it's okay let them call you  that what are you going to do now they  don't own your life how are you going to  control that now how are you gonna flip  it upside down and say Roger that now  I'm gonna harness this shit and you read  about me years from now how that's the  question how are you gonna do that  taking your skin become more of a human  being don't be afraid of the reflection  in the mirror  that's all you can be afraid of once you  overcome the reflection in the mirror  you've done it