You're the master of your fate

What I learned from that is many times you will have angst and worry about things, and put yourself in a state when the other person really isn't even thinking about you.

从这件事中，我明白了：很多时候你会为某些事情感到焦虑不安，而实际上，别人并没有你想象中那样在意这些事。

So learning that I could specifically determine for myself what the boundaries were for me. What I wanted to do? Give my money, give my time, give of my service to who I wanted to give it to. 

在我想明白这些后，我就可以明确地为自己设定边界。我想做的到底是什么？用我的金钱、时间和援助，去帮助那些我想要帮助的人。

When I did that, I've got to make that decision, and just because you get 100 requests a week doesn't mean you have to try to fulfill all of that.

当我这么做的时候，我必须做出这个决定：面对仅一周就收到的100个请求，我不用强求自己去响应所有的请求。

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