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Why Couples Who Post Less About Their Relationships On Social Media Are Happier为什么不怎么秀恩爱的情侣更幸福？

They Live in the here and now他们活在当下Sometimes couples get so engulfed in social media that they spend more time posting about their relationship that they aren’t really enjoying it in the present moment fully. When two people are in a relationship and choose to keep it off social media it allows for the couple to completely enjoy the time they are spending together，the couples know they don’t have anything to prove to anyone but to each other. They tend to be happier and much more secure with themselves and with each other.有时候，情侣们被吞噬在社交媒体中，以至于他们花更多的时间在秀恩爱，而没有在当下享受这份感情。当两个人在一起，并选择远离社交媒体时，他们便能完全享受在一起时间。这些情侣们知道，除了他们彼此，他们不需要任何东西向任何人证明什么。他们与对方在一起时，往往更快乐，更有安全感。Seek validation from the partner instead of through social media向社交媒体寻找认同而不是通过另一半When you post something to the social media to show how she/he loves you, you receive positive comments and a ton of likes, this is a kind of validation. But validation should be from the partner not from the social media.当你在社交媒体上秀恩爱时，你会得到正面的评价和大量的赞，这其实就是是一种认同（确认）。但这种认同应该来自你的另一半，而不是来自社交媒体。Not every relationship is always rainbows and butterflies. If you and your partner experience life together you are certainly going to have disagreements and strains on your relationship. That's for sure. But the thing is, it is special and it is sacred. So do your best to keep your relationship private. 所有的感情不会一直都是如胶似蜜，郎情妾意。如果你和你的另一半要一起生活，你们肯定会产生分歧，你们的关系也会紧张的。那是一定的。问题是，感情是特别并且神圣的，所以尽你所能对你们的感情要保密。公众号卡卡课堂回复UP获取更多资料