华尔街黑珍珠超具感染力的演讲：给25岁的自己最好的建议

Well hello, ladies a Morgan Stanley! This is the Power Hour. Well letter to my 25 year old self. The first thing that I would tell my 25 year old self is girl on your power. 
你们好，摩根史丹利的女士们，现在是加油时间。好的，给25岁的自己的一封信。我要告诉25岁的自己的第一件事就是，女孩，尽力去拼吧。

Don't ever let anyone take your power away or make you feel that you can`t have an impact in the world just because they said so the second thing that I would tell my 25 year old self is being willing to take risks, be fearless, because fear has no place in your success equation. 
不要让任何人夺走你的力量，或者让你觉得你不能仅仅因为他们说了那么一句话就对这个世界产生影响，我要告诉我25岁的自己的第二件事就是愿意冒险，无所畏惧，因为恐惧在你的成功等式中没有位置。

Anytime you approach anything in your life from a position of fear, you will always under penetrate that opportunity and be careful because fear is sneaky, it comes from all kinds of places. It can come from your parents. It can come from your friends, but make sure that you don't let it impede you`re forward motion. 
任何时候，当你从一个恐惧的位置接近你生活中的任何事情时，你都会低估这个机会，并且小心，因为恐惧狡猾的很，它来自各种各样的地方。它可能来自你的父母，也可能来自你的朋友，但一定不要让他阻碍你的前进。

Because there are two things that hold most women back fear and fatigue. The 3rd thing that I would tell my 25 year old self is just be Carla just be Carla don't try to say it. Like the boys say it, don't try to do it. Like the boys do it because you can't do it like the boys do, it because you're not the boy.
有两样东西拦住了大多数女性的路—恐惧和疲劳。我要告诉25岁的自己的第三件事就是做自己。不要试图说出来。不要模仿男孩说话，不要模仿男孩做事。你不能像男孩那样去做，因为你不是那个男孩。

But there's nobody that can be Carla the way you can be Carla. It is indeed your competitive advantage. And the secret is most people are uncomfortable in their own skin. So when they see somebody who is comfortable and confident in their own skin, they will gravitate towards you. 
没有人能像你一样成为卡拉，这其实是你的竞争优势，秘诀在于大多数人在做自己时反而不自在，所以当他们看到那些自信而潇洒的做自己的人时，他们会被吸引。

They want some of that. Your authenticity is at the heart of your power color, so don't give it away so easily. And another thing about power, the secret to growing your power is to give it away. When you empower other people, you grow your impact and your influence exponentially. 
他们也想变成那样。卡拉，你的真实就是你的核心力量，别轻易抛弃它，关于力量，获得力量的秘密就是奉献你的力量，当你给别人力量的时候，你的影响力也随之成指数增长。

The fourth thing that I would say to myself is Carla it is so much easier to beg for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission.
我要告诉自己的第四件事就是，卡拉，请求原谅可比请求许可容易的多。

Sometimes you give people the power to tell you no simply because you ask the question. The 5th thing that I would say to myself, if you meet a man that thinks that you're too much for him, he's right.
有时候，你给了别人拒绝的权力，只是因为你问他问题了。我要说的第五件事就是，如果你遇到一个男人，他认为自己高攀不上你，他是对的。

Don't apologize for your success. You work too hard for it. So don't apologize. I'd say Carla celebrate your victories and yourself often there will be many things in life that will Challenge you. 
别为你的成功感到抱歉。这是你辛辛苦苦拼来的，没有必要道歉，我要说，卡拉，要经常为你的胜利和自己庆祝。你要面临生活的许多挑战。

That might make you sad. That might bring you down. So every time you get an opportunity to celebrate something, celebrate, say yes, do the dance. Yes, say hallelujah and celebrate your friends, they will stay loyal to you. Celebrate your friends. 
他们可能会让你难过，他们可能会打垮你。所以一旦哟庆祝的机会，那就尽情庆祝吧。大喊“太棒了”，来跳个舞吧，大喊“哈利路亚”，别忘记为朋友庆祝，他们会对你更加忠诚，为朋友庆祝吧。

Don't worry about making mistakes. Mistakes happen to everybody, makes a mistake. You're not special, because you make a mistake. There's no big deal to making a mistake. It's all in the recovery. 
别害怕犯错。每个人都会犯错，大家都会犯错，你不是个例，因为你犯了个错，犯错没什么大不了的，重点是如何振作。

It's all in the recovery. Most people don't recover from a mistake. If you want a different change yourself, get the blessing of the lesson, get up and move on. 
重点是如何振作，许多人没办法从失败中振作起来，如果你像让自己变得与众不同，那就好好学学如何振作起来，继续前进。

The other thing I tell myself is you don't ask, you don't get, you don't ask,you don't get. You want to get paid？ You'd better ask, you better be clear about your expectations. Spend time not only loving, but studying understanding and forgiving your parents, they will always be here. They did the best they can they could and they're just people too. 
我还要告诉自己，你不要的就得不到，你不开口要，就得不到。你想要酬劳？最好去要，你需要很清楚自己的期望，花时间去爱，去学习，去理解和原谅父母，他们不会永远都在。他们尽力了，他们也是凡人。

The other thing that I would say to myself finally is life is a journey. Enjoy the trip. You don't have to be in a hurry. Make sure that you glory in all of the accomplishments. Sit down just for a minute and say, girl, that's okay. 
最后我想对自己说的是，生命就是一场旅程。请尽情享受它。你不必太着急，请为自己的成就自豪，稍微坐一会，对自己说，女孩，“没关系的”。

Because the boys won't always tell you you did a good job. So you have to know when you did a good job, you got to get really good it`s saying girl you go this is real life Karla this ain`t no dress rehearsal go for it.
因为男号们不会告诉你“做的真好”，所以你做的很好的时候，地好好对自己说，“你真棒”，这就是人生，卡拉，没有彩排，向前冲吧！！！