老外来了：老外来了：西方男生恋爱的特征，你以为的“喜欢”，或许只是

介绍： 主播：Peter（英国） 翩翩（中国）
歌曲：You're Beautiful

1. General ways they show friendliness? 欧美男人表达友好的常用方式？

To show friendliness, maybe they could pay you some compliments.
有的时候会夸奖一下，而且一定是short and polite的夸奖。

I like your dress. 我喜欢你的裙子。
I like your hairstyle. 你的发型不错呀！

Buy food for you, buy you drinks
偶尔会给女生买一下食物、帮你买单、或者给你买饮料喝，但注意不是very often哦。
Open the door for you, or open the car for you to get in and out.
帮你开车门，或者进门时帮你开一下门也只是在being gentlemen哦，千万别misunderstand啦。

所以说平时偶尔照顾一下女生，或者帮女生买个单等等，It doesn’t mean anything. 并不能说明什么，所以此时不宜自作多情哦。
You don’t want to have mixed signals. 你也不想会错意吧

2. Paying more or strong compliments

Look at you sideways glances 
经常偷偷看你
sideways glances 斜瞥，偷偷地从侧面看你

If you catch this guy give you a sideways glances, or give you more strong compliments
如果你发现与男生偷偷地看你，或者经常夸奖你，那么恭喜你，他喜欢你哦！

3. phrases to confess:
I feel like we are more than friends. 我觉得我们友达以上了。
I have feelings for you. 我对你蛮有感觉的。
I have a thing for you. 我暗恋你

那么什么时候说I am in love with you 呢？
It’s more serious. They would only say that after they are already couple.
这句话通常在已经是情侣的时候才能说哦。

4. How can you tell a man is trying to date with a girl? 欧美男人在试图跟一个女人约会的表现？
Paying for her food and drink very often.
吃饭时经常给她付钱
Gentlemen will walk her home after a night out.
绅士的男人会送她回家

a night out 晚间外出

Often ask a girl to cinema/ dinner
经常约她去看电影或者吃饭
Following you on social media, and like your posts.
在社交媒体上，像Titter、WeChat、Weibo等，他们会like most of your posts，并且迅速点赞或者留言。

give you a like/ comment 给你点个赞/留个言

It’s very important not to have mixed signals. Or it could be awkward.
不要会错意，不要自作多情这一点非常重要！否则的话就会非常尴尬。