Don't Let These 5 Kinds of People in Your Life

Show me your friends and I’ll soon tell you who you are, and what kind of life you will live. Those you CHOOSE to surround yourself with, will play a huge part in the quality of your life, or lack of quality in your life.
给我看看你的朋友，我很快就会告诉你你是谁，你会过什么样的生活。选择什么样的朋友相伴，将直接决定你的生命质量。

If you hang around with only angry and negative people… your life will be full of anger and negativity. If you surround yourself with kind, compassionate and positive people, your life will have more kindness, and positive energy. Who you surround yourself with is crucial, and sometimes it is important you reflect on those you are spending the most time with and asking yourself, do I really want these people in my life?
如果你只和愤怒、消极的人在一起，你的生活将充满愤怒和消极。如果你身边有善良、有同情心和积极的人，你的生活中将有更多的善良和正能量。你身边的人是至关重要的，有时候，你必须要反省，那些在你身边时间最长的朋友，我真的想要这些人在我的生命里吗？

If you have any of these people in your life, it might be time to rethink how much time you spend with them, if any at all. It might not be easy to limit or end all interaction with these people, if they are friends, or family… but if they are not making your life, or theirs better by you spending time together, maybe it’s time for both of you to move on.
如果你的生活中有下面这样的人，也许是时候重新考虑，你到底应该花在他们身上多少时。如果他们是朋友或家人，减少与他们相处的时间可能并不容易……但是如果你们双方在一起相处，生活都没有变得更好，是时候向前迈进一步了。

Number 1: Dishonest People
Number 2: Controlling People
Number 3: Angry, Bitter and Negative People (Victim Mentality)
Number 4: Takers (Never Givers)
Number 5: Those Who Have No Desire To Grow
第一：不诚实的人
第二：控制狂
第三：愤怒、痛苦和消极的人（受害者心态）
第四：接受者（从不给予）
第五：那些不想成长的人

Let’s talk a little more about each personality so you can spot them, and if needed, limit your time, or end your time with them.
让我们多谈谈每个人的性格，这样你就能发现他们，如果需要的话，限制你们相处的时间，或者根本不花时间在他们身上。

【Number 1: Dishonest People】
TRUST is a major human need for any relationship. Friendships, romantic relationships, family members – if you can’t trust them, limit your time with them. If they lie repeatedly or rarely give you the full story – this is a clear sign they don’t respect you. Address the problem with the person, if you can, and if the situation doesn’t change move on and move forward. Don’t respond with hate, or revenge in mind, just move on, take the high road, and let them play out their dishonesty elsewhere. Remember, if something feels off, it is most likely off.
在人类的任何关系中，信任都是最基本的需求。友谊，浪漫的关系，家庭成员——如果你不能信任他们，就减少与他们在一起的时间。如果他们反复说谎或很少给你完整的故事——这是一个明显的迹象，他们不尊重你。如果可以的话，直接跟他们沟通这个问题，如果情况没有改变，那么你该向前迈一步了。不要以仇恨或报复来回应，只要继续前进，走上正道，不让他们的不诚信干扰到你。记住，如果有什么东西感觉不对劲，那么很可能它就是有问题。

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