《让步，是涵养，也是善良》

《让步，是涵养，也是善良》
Concession is self-restraint and kindness.

一个懂得让步的人，最值得深交。

一个斤斤计较的人，最不配结交。

A compromise of the people, the most worthy of deep friendship.

A man who CARES about every ounce is the last person to be associated with.

一个心胸大度的人，最容易相处。

一个心思狭隘的人，最不值付出。

A generous person, the most easy to get along with.

A person with a narrow mind is not worth paying for.

一个豁达豪爽的人，处事最大方。

一个小肚鸡肠的人，交往最小气！

An open-minded and forthright person is the most generous in doing things.

A small - minded person, the most stingy contact!


和家人相处，

让步是包容，是心疼！

退一步未必是真的有错，

爱你的人，一定会让你赢；

忍一时未必是心里没怒气，

疼你的人，才会压住脾气！

Spending time with family,

Concession is inclusive, is distressed!

Taking a step back is not necessarily wrong.

Love you, will let you win;

Patience is not necessarily the absence of anger,

Love your people, will suppress temper!


和朋友相处，

让步是真诚，是尊重！

忍让不是害怕谁，而是为人厚道；

宽容不是没底线，而是看重情义！

With friends,

Concession is sincere, is respect!

Tolerance is not afraid of who, but kindness;

Tolerance is not no bottom line, but value friendship!

为人处事：

有理时，不要不饶人；

有气时，不要去飙人；

有怨时，不要针对人；

有能时，不要小瞧人！

Conduct yourself:

Don't be unkind when you are right;

When you are angry, don't go to the floor.

When you have a complaint, don't take it personally.

Don't look down upon others when you can!

太能算计的人，让人远；

太能挑刺的人，让人烦；

太能争辩的人，让人厌；

太贪便宜的人，让人嫌！

Too calculating people, let people far;

The person who can find fault too much is annoying.

People who can argue too much are annoying.

Too cheap people, let people hate!


让步，不是懦弱，

而是和蔼可亲的性格！

让步，不是退缩，

而是为人处事的原则！

Concession, not cowardice,

But an amiable character!

Concession, not retreat,

But the principle of doing things!


世间的理争不完，

争赢了孤家寡人；

情义的事道不尽，

懂让步便得人心！

The world is full of arguments,

To win a lonely man;

The way of righteousness is endless,

Know concession is popular!

Enlightened by Randeng Lhama
English by Judy Padma
12th.Sept., 2019